The Old Schoolhouse Magazine

Minute to Minute
Readers Helping Readers

August 4th, 2007
This week Minute to Minute introduces you to a mom who needs some encouragement from veteran homeschoolers. She's about to plunge into homeschooling for the first time but needs help overcoming the fear factor.
 
She, like Joshua, needs to be reminded of the Lord's command in Joshua 1:9, "Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." The Lord has commanded his people, and especially homeschool moms, to not fear. He is with us, guiding our steps. An unfearful spirit is not a suggestion, it's a command. "Be not afraid. . . for the Lord thy God is with thee."
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The Fear Factor
Dear Homeschool Moms,

I am a stay at home mom to my two children (a son, 6 and daughter, 7) and a wife to a very loving and supportive husband. I first started thinking about homeshooling when my daughter was a baby, and I was reading the Pearl's, No Greater Joy, child training series.

Both kids went to preschool a few days a week (one year at a Christian preschool).  My daughter finished kindergarten and first grade at our local public school and my son just completed kindergarten there. As public schools go, it's one of the better ones in our town. Several of the teachers are born again believers and many of the teachers are wonderful and dedicated. Both of my children (and I) have made some nice friends there, yet in the middle of the year we decided that we'd homeschool next year. The straw that broke the camel's back could have been my son's comment that he missed having his teacher talk about Jesus, but it's probably more of our general frustration over the negative socialization and wasted time at school.

My husband is 100% behind homeschooling, but my family will be furious when they find out, and most of my friends don't think it's a good idea.

I have been excited (most of the time) at the idea of homeschooling, and I've done tons of research into what we'll be studying next year. During the school year, the kids sometimes expressed a desire to stay at home for school. When school got out, we told them that they'd be homeschooled next year, yet I don't know if they fully understand that they won't be going to the school AT ALL next year.  A big problem I face is that we live one house away from the grade school!  We hear every bell/recess/PE class all day long even from inside the house.

I believe that the Lord put this desire to homeschool in my heart and mind, and I know that in Him there is no fear... but I'm so scared! What if the kids beg to go back when they see/hear their friends at recess or hear from their friends about some fun activity they're doing at school? What if I can't make learning exciting or fun for them? What if I lose my will/desire to homeschool during the year?.....I'm ready take the plunge, but I'm so afraid I might lose my will in the face of so many "what ifs."
 
Preparing to homeschool,
 
Laura
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Please help Laura overcome her fears of homeschooling. If you have an encouraging story, words of wisdom, or suggestions for her transition period please email us. When you email us you give us permission to post your responses in the Minute to Minute e-newsletter, send your responses to the questioner, and use them in The Old Schoolhouse Magazine's My Voice column if selected. Thank you for your support and encouragement to other homeschool moms.
 
Sincerely,
Nancy Carter, The Homeschool Minute Editor
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