The Old Schoolhouse Magazine

Minute to Minute
Readers Helping Readers

September 1st, 2007
Sometimes our children have an off day when they just don't feel like doing school. It's one of those days when motivation, no matter how tempting, just doesn't seem to work. You sit there pulling your hair out, wondering if anyone else has felt this way.
 
You're not alone. In fact, this week's question comes from Alison, an Australian homeschooler, who wants your advice on how to motivate her children. She's at her wits end because every day is an off day. All her motivational tools have failed and her children still hate school. What should she do? What did you do? We want to know.
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Motivating my children
G'day all you wise ones,
 

I struggle with the problem of stubborn kids who decide to take all day to do what should (when they set themselves to the task it does) take only a couple of hours. Actually, the 3 of them take it in turns to be difficult.

 
My husband and I share the home education; he does the majority. We do schooling stuff 8am - noon. If they apply themselves to their lessons they can be finished by 10 am, but usually this does not happen. By the end of the day, I end up grumpy; they end up worn out, and it feels like nothing gets achieved. The concept of having fun while homeschooling seems like the diametric opposite of what we achieve.

I have tried bribery with special outings or privileges to get them moving on the 3 Rs. The days they zoom through their work it is a much better day for everyone, but such days seem to be rare and not reproducible.

Australian home educator,
 
Alison
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Please email us with suggestions that Alison could implement to motivate her children while homeschooling. Tell us your tips, tricks, and rewards that have helped your children enjoy homeschooling. When you email us you give us permission to post your response in the Minute to Minute e-newsletter, send your response to Alison, or use it in The Old Schoolhouse Magazine's "My Voice" column if selected.
 
Sincerely,
Paul and Gena Suarez, Publishers
The Old Schoolhouse Magazine