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The Old Schoolhouse Magazine
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August 15, 2007
 
Nancy Carter PicturePlease forgive our formatting issues from today's earlier copy. We really appreciate you all letting us know. It definitely was NOT an intentional change in formatting. It was just one of those weird code things that I hope NEVER happens again. Thanks for bearing with us. Here's today's newsletter. :O)

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After last week's learning styles newsletter, a few people wrote to remind us of some wonderful resources that we failed to mention -
The Way They Learn by Cynthia Tobias and our own Christine Field's Homeschooling the Challenging Child. Good catch! We're glad to pass that information along.

And this week, we're going to talk about homeschool co-ops and I've got another great resource for you if you're in leadership of your local support group or co-op -
www.HomeschoolCPA.com. Carol Topp, homeschool mom and CPA, has lots of great information on organizing your homeschool support group or co-op. If you've ever wondered if your group should file for non-profit status or what kind of insurance you all need to have, Carol's website will be a wonderful help.

Speaking of help, co-ops are a wonderful blessing to many homeschool families. However yours is structured, find a way to pitch in and help. You'll get to know some other great parents and children and will help keep the co-op going!

Enjoy every minute!


THM Editor

PS -
Congratulations to Angela A. from Richmond, Ohio for being our 15,000th customer in the Schoolhouse Store. Enjoy all your freebies!

Oh, and if you'd like some freebies for your children or little ones at your church, take a look at the Battle for the Toy Box Contest!

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Deborah Wuehler, TOS Senior Editor

Homeschool co-ops can be a wonderful answer to prayer, or they can be a temptation to more busyness. It all depends on how God is leading you each year for each child, how the co-ops are run and what they are used for, and what your family dynamics are at this season in your life. I believe it takes prayer and wisdom every day of every year on how involved your family can or should be in anything.

Here's my take on the Benefits and Cautions of Homeschool Co-ops:

Benefits:

  1. Your children have the opportunity to learn things that you may not have the time or ability to teach alone.
  2. They have the opportunity to learn from someone other than you.
  3. You have the opportunity to use your gifts and talents in teaching a subject to bless other homeschoolers.
  4. The children get to socialize with other like-minded kids.
  5. They are great for those with older children who need specialized classes and great for those with younger children who want to expose them to a class setting.
  6. They are awesome for usually having something tangible to show what your children have learned.
  7. It's a great thing to say to those who question your homeschooling, "My kids are in a co-op where they are learning this and this and this."

Cautions:

  1. You may find yourself spread too thin (especially if you are running to co-op on Wednesdays, soccer and ballet practice on Tuesday and Thursday, Library and errands on Fridays, piano practice and group meetings on Mondays, let alone park days, field trips, other extra curricular activities and service projects.
  2. If you have only younger children, teaching them and getting them ready takes a lot of time, let alone preparing to teach a whole class yourself.
  3. You may have a large brood of children, making it difficult to participate as you are already pulled in many directions.
  4. There is a danger in relying on co-op classes as a replacement for teaching at home, and not merely as a supplement to your teaching. You'll know if you find yourself saying, "I didn't have much time to teach my kids this week, but that's okay, because they'll get it at co-op."
  5. Be sure your Christian worldview is upheld by all the teachers.
  6. Co-ops can be a huge time commitment inside and outside the classroom.

So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom. Psalm 90:12

Pray every day that God would give you a heart of wisdom as you number your days whether you decide to participate in homeschool co-ops or decide to opt out. You don't have to feel guilty either way if you have applied your heart to wisdom and followed God's leading.

~Deborah
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Dena Wood, Schoolhouse Store Manager
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Living in a small town, I often wish for the opportunity to participate in co-ops. I do think this is something my children and I would enjoy, though I must admit I've heard a few "co op horror stories".  If you're thinking of setting up a co op, helping with one, or just involved with a group and looking for ideas and suggestions you'll definitely want to check out our E-Book: The Homeschool Co-op Planner. This book is chock full of ideas, information and helpful forms. An experienced planner herself, Julie Forsythe covers topics and situations I would never even have considered. That's where the voice of experience comes in!  You simply can't beat the price as this book is available as part of our storewide E-Book sale for only $3.48!!

Another helpful E-Book, though not specifically geared to co-ops, is E-Book: SchoolMedic's Field Guide to Elementary Classroom Management. Don't let the title scare you! I was pleasantly surprised by the warm easy-to-read style and the multitude of helpful, practical tips regarding organization, motivation, discipline, work habits and more. This book is also part of our E-Book sale and available for only $4.97.

~Dena
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Ruth Beechick, Curriculum Specialist

I once saw an immensely successful co-op on writing. The parent support group simply set a date when the children would meet and each read to the
group something they wrote. No restrictions on making it an essay, a story, a poem, or anything particular. That was up to each family, and it motivated writing for a month or so as families prepared for the date. Reading aloud was voluntary, not required, but as brave children began and were applauded, shy ones joined too-all of them. During refreshments the parents could go around and write encouraging comments on each child's paper. The group did not repeat that throughout the year, but the one meeting provided a great experience in writing as communication, writing with an audience in mind.

My friend Debbie Strayer, who works with homeschoolers, has a brilliant observation about co-ops. The bad ones are where parents abdicate responsibility; they are "schoolish" in including fees, credit, testing, and too much homework. The good ones focus on interaction and leaving homeschool decisions and freedoms with each family. Electives and enrichment areas like drama, music and art work best. Occasionally an academic course can work, too, if it is structured to leave freedom-even the grading-with parents.

In some areas of the country co-ops are extremely popular, and public and private schools take advantage of that to lure homeschoolers into their systems. I see where an occultic organization hides that occult aspect, gets themselves accepted as "charter schools" under public tax money, and then advertise that they are co-ops for homeschoolers. When I alerted local churches about one of those here, the school got wind of it and changed their name so they cannot be identified with the occult organization, and they still advertise that they are an arts-based school open to homeschool co-ops. They are clever, and we must practice strong biblical discrimination and responsibility to our families.

-Ruth
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Todd Wilson, Familyman Ministries

What is it with women and shoes? A man needs just a few pairs - black, brown and athletic. My wife, on the other hand, has more brown pairs of shoes than the whole men's department at the local Pilcher's shoe store. The weird thing about it though is that she rarely wears several of them because they don't fit that comfortably.

"Why do you keep these shoes?" I ask.

She looks at me as if I'm from another planet and answers, "Because they go with my brown swooshy skirt."

"But I thought you said they hurt your feet."

"So."

You're probably wondering what on earth this has to do with homeschool co-ops, so here's my point: Homeschool co-ops are like women's shoes. There are all types of them to choose from but often the ones that appear the best . . don't really fit. Instead of offering comfort, encouragement, and support, they leave you tired, worn out, or feeling like a failure.

So here's what to look for when picking a co-op. First, pick one that is made up of members who homeschool for the same primary reason you do. Second, if the group sounds like it might require too much work from you . . . it will. Pass it by. Thirdly, and most importantly, pick one in which the members aren't afraid to be honest. You want and need to belong to a group that is real and will allow you to be real as well . . . because everyone knows that the best shoes are the ones that may look a little worn and smell a bit, but they feel so good.

Be real . . . and on behalf of your husband; get rid of some of those shoes,
Todd

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Julie Nott, TOS Marketing Manager

I've had good and bad experiences with co-ops. One was with friends where us Moms did all the work and had common goals. We planned the year around a particular topic and taught around our strengths. It was a lot of work, but well worth the effort.

My other co-op experience was this past year where teachers or other homeschooling parents were hired. I call this a "school for homeschoolers" where you can pick and choose which subjects you want your kids to take. I was not prepared for the homework expectations, and the co-op started to rule our homeschool. I really didn't get much of my own homeschooling plans accomplished last year. The good thing? My kids received some instruction that I lacked at home...like consistent physical education. [grin]

My free advice for you:

1. Make sure you are prepared for the extra pressure of planning your year with other parents. You are no longer in charge of your own schedule.

2. When co-oping with friends/other parents, be honest with each other about what is working and what is not working.

3. When you are in a co-op where teachers are hired, good communication is key.

4. Be ready for conflict between kids and parents alike. It WILL happen. I recommend agreeing on the steps you will take when disciplining each other's children. This will alleviate a lot of problems. Here's an example of a standard code of conduct for a co-op.
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