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The Old Schoolhouse Magazine
Home Where They Belong
 
September 26, 2007
 
Nancy Carter PictureRaising girls - I can't say much about this one. You all know I don't have any, right? But as the mother of three sons, I appreciate you raising them to be godly women.

I'm doing my best to raise my boys to be godly husbands and I'm looking forward to having daughter-in-laws one day that I can finally do girl stuff with.

I really like my friends' little girls. I love how they'll tell you all about their day. I love how they tell you that they like your new shirt. I love how they offer to help with the little ones and pitch in with other things. It's amazing to me to see these little Proverbs 31 girls in training. To see them shopping and selecting clothes carefully that are pretty AND modest. To see them growing and prayerfully planning for the future. Many of them are miles ahead of where I was at their age.

I think my boys are going to have pretty high expectations for a future wife because we've been around so many wonderful girls in our homeschool group. I don't know how you all are doing it, but keep up the good work!


THM Editor

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Deborah Wuehler, TOS Senior Editor

I have three beautiful daughters (along with four rough and tumble sons). Each is uniquely fashioned by God for His purposes.

I need to constantly remind myself that these young girls may be the wives, young mothers, and homeschooling moms someday - soon. What am I doing now to prepare them for that great adventure?

For much of my childhood, my mother worked, so when asked how I could help her, in her tiredness her response would be, "You can help me by staying out of the way." When I am tempted to say the same thing, I remember that I desire to have my daughters follow me as I follow Christ. I need them right alongside me as much as possible, no matter how inconvenient it seems. This way they are hopefully learning to be servant-hearted in all they do.

And, instead of bowing down to the world's philosophy of girls being "the princess" we teach them that a true daughter of the King of Kings bows down before Him. We also want to guard them against misplaced affections by showing how to place their whole affection on the only One who can truly satisfy a girl's heart. How do we teach this? She needs to see us placing our own affection and devotion on our God. She needs to see that our first love is Christ, and that all other relational love stems from that.

The main purpose of our training our girls is that the Word of God will not be blasphemed which means "to be spoken evil of." To see a young girl learning to be a sober, loving, discreet, keeper at home is to see the Word of God praised rather than put down. This, therefore, attains our desire that the world might see the glory of God in His little princesses.

"The aged women likewise . . . that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." Titus 2:3-5


~Deborah

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Dena Wood, Schoolhouse Store Manager
Girlhood Companion
Boy do we have some great resources for girls in The Schoolhouse Store!

Marmee's Kitchen Primer is a wonderful first textbook on the subject of cooking and keeping a proper kitchen. It can even be purchased with a "Just-My-Size Tool Set" for the youngest learners. (Dare I point out that Christmas is just around the corner?)

Remembrance Press puts out a lovely magazine for girls 10-18 called Girlhood Home Companion. Order by the single issue or back issue sets in E-Book format. Pumkin Seed Press offers several resources for young women including mother/daughter and father/daughter studies. And, if your daughter loves to sew (or wants to learn how) you'll be amazed at our many sewing resources. In fact, as I type this out, I realize there is really no way I can highlight all the wonderful products we have for our young ladies. Your best bet is simply to spend some time browsing our Home Economics category. You won't be sorry!

~Dena
Ruth Beechick It's Just Common Sense
Ruth Beechick, Curriculum Specialist

I'm the last person in the world you should listen to about raising girls since we had no girls--only boys, and only two. During those family years I often said that raising boys was easier than raising girls. I don't know now why I thought so. Maybe because Dad took over much of the work so it was easy on Mom. Dad taught how to shoot baskets and bat a baseball. He coached the Little League team. And when puberty came he did the necessary explaining. In those days there weren't a lot of handy books on this.

I do believe that for both boys and girls discipline is important. And if children are well disciplined at young ages it gets easier and easier at older ages.

But, as I said, don't listen to me. A former president of Prairie Bible Institute once said that if he had only five children he could tell everybody how to raise their children. "But, oh, number six!" he added. And I had only two.


~Ruth
The Familyman The Familyman
Todd Wilson, Familyman Ministries

I'm sure you've noticed this, but raising daughters is different than raising sons. Not that one is better than the other, but they're just so different. While sons are climbing, running, and sword fighting, most daughters are trying on clothes, sitting, and reading.

I mean I absolutely love my boys to death, but there is something special about my two adorable daughters. They're girls after all.

And while we do train our sons and daughters to the same standards of obedience, kindness, gentleness, and self-control, there are some differences in what we train them for.

In fact, I believe that while Titus 2 may be the passage that most women hate, it's also the perfect curriculum guide for raising daughters. You, mom, are the older woman and your daughter is the younger woman.

Here's what you need to teach and encourage your daughter in:

  • Loving her husband (and the men in her life until then i.e.,brothers/dad/etc.)
  • Loving her children (showing her how to nurture and care for small ones)
  • Loving her home (and a few other things listed in Titus 2)

These things are all that really matter and will be the reason for your daughter's happiness or misery later on. The truth is, your daughter will not be miserable if she fails to master algebra, but she will be miserable if she fails to learn how to love her husband and children.

And here's the crux of the matter: you don't teach these things by going through a curriculum but by loving YOUR husband, children, and home. Your girls watch you (because they're always watching) and they learn.

So, Mom make today's lesson for your daughter a lesson on loving her future husband by loving yours. Make a special dinner for your man, send him a card, or drop in and surprise him at lunchtime.

That will be a lesson your daughter will never forget - math facts should be so easy.

Be Real,
Todd

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Jamin, Freebie Finder

One of the most fun things about having a daughter for me is doing crafts together! (My boys will do them, but my daughter truly enjoys them as much as Mom does!)

Here are some FREE craft sites my daughter and I enjoy:

HERE is a free printable custom book for little girls.  This is very cute.  You can type in info about your girl and print out a little customized booklet she can then color.  My daughter loves this one!

HERE is a great DIY Kids Craft Website I know my girl would love!  This site includes ideas for making clothing for Polly Pocket Dolls, skirts for stuffed animals, bracelets from left over fabric trim and much more!

We also really enjoy the free ideas at the Crayola website.  HERE is a site where you can search type of craft, theme and product you want  to use.  (Example:  When I searched for "Gifts and Cards", "Fabric and Jewelry" and "any product" we got 22 ideas of things to make!  These ranged from hair clips to baby bibs.)

Crafting with your daughter is not only fun but it is a great time to have conversations!  My daughter loves the one on one attention she gets during craft time and I love the great things she tells me during these times.  It is a win-win situation!  (To see lots of the things my daughter (and sons) and I have made together feel free to visit my blog!)

Happy Homeschooling!
~Jamin

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