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Fall 2002

Paul and Gena Suarez

Greetings to all of you, from the Suarez family, in Cool, California - don't let the name "Cool" fool you! It's been a viciously hot summer and we are so anticipating the new school year at home. Fall is our favorite season! Thanks to our talented layout crew in Illinois, we can present you with this larger issue featuring the earthy, autumn front cover. So pretty! Did you know that our layout crew (who created the cover and the rest of this mag) consists of a couple of homeschool graduates? They have been a fun addition to our staff. It's so special to discover such talent, especially knowing that it's rooted in a homeschooling upbringing!

Each issue, we re-introduce ourselves because we are undergoing a growth spurt and don't want to miss anyone. So, if you have not yet met us, we are Paul and Gena Suarez, with four lovely, lively and eager children; Paul (12), Luke (11), Levi (8) and Julia Rachel (6). They love penpals and will write back if they hear from you! They greatly enjoy fellowshipping with children their ages from all over the world, just as we enjoy hearing from you and writing back to you. It's a pleasure to make your acquaintance!

Our family has been blessed beyond believe in the past year. God has done a lot in our family and we are increasingly thankful to Him. How can we ever "re-pay the Lord for His faithfulness? Last issue (Summer) in this column, we talked about ambitions and right priorities. We have a great pastor in the Garden Valley area who did a wonderful series on the subject. It challenged us to really take inventory of our motives for doing what we do. We are more determined now than ever before to serve Christ, our Lord, rather than chasing our own dreams and ambitions.

As you know, we feature many reviews on products sent to us by education companies. Our review staff is pretty large (getting bigger and more fun all the time!) and so many products continue to pour in each week for our commentaries. One publishing company, Harvest House, puts out some really great books. They sent us several on the basic Christian doctrines (Paul's favorite pastime is studying the Word with Gena and the kids) which are essential to our faith. When packing up our box for us, they threw in something new, just off their presses. It's a book called A Divine Invitation, by Steve McVey. Did you know that God loves you so much that you cannot even comprehend it? You know, a lot of people struggle with the knowledge of their past sins, even struggling with just who they are in general. They figure, "I blow it too often. God cannot really love me … OK, a little, He loves me a little, but I know I disappoint Him all the time …" Well, guess what? This is terrible. Many people are not coming to their heavenly with an "I am clean because Christ made me clean" attitude and it's hindering them! If Christ is your Savior (literally!), then you are accepted and love by Him! Here is something else we witness, which is a tragedy. People are always trying to 'pay God.' How do they do this? Yes, they realize that man-made traditions are not necessary - God took care of our 'entry fee' to eternal life on the cross, right? Sure, they know they need not burden themselves further with rules and regulations. However, for some crazy reason, they feel that they cannot approach the Father 'fully' unless they have somehow earned His love. Maybe a wife screamed at her husband and slammed the door in front of her kids. She is devastated for the whole day or more! Why? She repented! She humbled herself before her Lord, husband and kids. Why is she now unable to just get through her day with Joy? So, she goes and makes meals for people in her church, cleans the house really well and then does extra school work with the kids. NOW she 'feels' better … She feels whole once again before her Lord because she 'paid her way back into the Father's good graces.' Bummer!

When Christ suffered for us on the cross, He knew about that mommy. She was loved, forgiven and accepted back then! Do you know people who are spending time trying to 'pay for their sins?' How 'bout people who are just not 'worthy' enough on their own (even with Christ!)? Do you know someone who is trying to 'pay God?'

This book we just mentioned, A Divine Invitation, is so neat. We don't normally 'talk products' anywhere except in the product reviews/contests pages. Steve, however, in this book, gives so many stories and examples that show us, beyond the shadow of a doubt, how much we are loved and treasured by God. Jesus did the work on the cross eons ego- it's finished! Take a look at the following analogy Steve provides for us, in A Divine Invitation. He also tries, the best he can, to give us a definition of God's love:

[Love's] depth and breadth extend far beyond the bounds of human reasoning. To the unenlightened eye, it would seem irrational, maybe even eccentric. Within the narrow confines of ordinary common sense, this kind of loves makes no sense. Its object is so undeserving. Its source is so unfathomable. And the medium of its expression suggests a sort of divine absurdity that defies anything understood by men and women.

The conduit through which this love flows is a cross - a barbaric tool of revenge that for millennia has epitomized the greatest agony and the deepest shame one may know. Historically, the cross was reserved for the vilest of the human race. It was considered to be the place where the trash of the universe finally met the incinerator of justice. It was here that the baby-killer finally identified with the horror he had inflicted on pure innocence. It was at this place that the callused and obstinate criminal would finally weep like a small schoolgirl. It was where the worst possible offenders would finally be joined with the worst possible consequence. It was on this bloody altar that agony and agape met and embraced. Since that day, nothing has been the same.

"Are you suggesting that we owe God nothing at all, even after all that He has done for us?" one pastor asked me.

"Kurt, what could you owe God for all that He has done for you?" I asked. "How could we ever repay God for a priceless gift?"

"Of course, I know we could never repay Him," Kurt said. "But we can spend our lives trying to repay Him."

"And how do we do that?" I persisted. "What could we offer God that would even begin to repay Him for the goodness to us?" Kurt's perspective isn't an uncommon one, but my question to him begs an answer. How could we ever repay God for His great gift of eternal life in Jesus Christ?

Adam and Joshua were best friends who served in Vietnam together, often fighting side by side during intense battles. One day Adam's unit pulled out, and he was stuck alone behind the enemy line. He had been wounded and wasn't able to stand to his feet. Upon discovering what had happened, Joshua rushed back into the heat of the conflict and battled his way to the foxhole where Adam lay without hope. Joshua threw his friend across his shoulders and began to run for safety. As he approached the protection of his own unit, Joshua was shot in the back. He collapsed forward into another foxhole where his allies immediately cared for both him and Adam.

Adam spent a month in the hospital, requiring back surgery and physical therapy. He had paid a great price to save his buddy. But to him, Adam was worth it. After all, they were best friends.

One day after they arrived back home, Joshua came home to find Adam putting his lawn mower back into his garage. "What are you doing?" Joshua asked.

"I just came over and mowed your lawn" Adam answered.

"Why?" Joshua asked.

"Well, I was thinking about it," Adam said. "You saved my life in 'Nam, and I thought maybe I could try to repay you by mowing your lawn."

How do you think Joshua felt when Adam told him that?

…We are all born sons and daughters of Adam, destined for destruction - yet believers have been rescued by our Joshua - Jesus Christ. He didn't simply risk His life. He gave His life for us. What could we ever do to repay Him? There is nothing that we can do but to accept the fact that He loves us that much. Will His love make a difference in the way we act? Of course it will! However, our behavior is the results of His actions toward us, not a repayment for them. Don't try to pay a price for a priceless gift. To do so only demonstrates that we have no concept of the gift's infinite value … God's desire is that you will grow in your knowledge of His love and your capacity to receive it. Forget what you think you owe Him and accept, by faith, that it has already been paid.
Our author friend, Steve, is right! God's love for us is deeper and wider than you can imagine. You are allowed to come to Him freely, without reservation. From our family to yours, God bless you this fall as you gear up for the school year. Don't disable yourself. Rest in His perfect love for you without feeling the need to 'earn it' or 'pay something back for it' because this love is real, it's never-ending, and it's already been paid for - His love is fully yours. -- The Suarez Clan --

* Permission given by both Harvest House and Steve McVey for the above book excerpts (taken from A Divine Invitation, copyright, 2002, by Harvest House Publishers, Eugene, OR). Much thanks to them for their generosity! Contact Steve, author of Grace Walk, Grace Rules and Grace Land (all three by Harvest House Publishers) over at Grace Walk Ministries to find books on just what his titles imply, God's incredible grace. Reach him at www.gracewalk.org or 800-472-2311. Philippians 3:10.





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