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Cindy Downes A Homeschooling Mentor to Know

By Christine Field

Cindy Downes has been advising and encouraging homeschoolers for over ten years. After graduating her own high schoolers in 1994, she began to offer her expertise to other moms in their home education programs. Many struggled with traditional curriculum but were afraid to break away from the seeming security it offered. Cindy began to work on The Checklist: A K-12 Scope and Sequence/Recordkeeper for Christian Home Educators, which is available on her website at www.oklahomahomeschool.com. In addition, the site contains some of the most comprehensive material for planning a program that I’ve ever seen! She joins TOS to share her heart for homeschoolers.

TOS: Cindy, I’m so impressed with the comprehensive materials you have produced! When did you begin to write and synthesize materials for homeschoolers?

CINDY: Each year, I did homeschool consulting from early spring through Au- 64 ¦ Show and Tell, Too www.TheHomeschoolMagazine.com gust. I loved helping moms simplify their homeschool and create lesson plans that worked for them. However, after I became a grandmother, I wanted to spend more time with my grandchild. I realized that in order to do this, I would have to give up the consulting. “My” moms were really upset; so to keep them happy, I told them that I would put everything I ever knew about homeschooling on my website. That way, they could “pick” my brain any time they wanted and I could enjoy my granddaughter while she was young!
I started by putting all the newsletter articles I’ve written and workshops I’ve taught in HTML format and putting them on the website. Next, I added the forms I’ve created and unit studies I’ve written. In the meantime, I wrote The Checklist so that moms could develop their own lesson plans. That took me five years to complete! During the last two years, I’ve added field trip information and Oklahoma history resources to the website. I still have so many more ideas to add, but time is so short!

TOS: What do you see is the number- one reason homeschoolers become discouraged?

CINDY: Homeschooling is hard work; it doesn’t always look like it’s “working”; and there’s a lot of pressure from the rest of the world to conform to what’s considered “normal.” I have seen that the parents who make it are the ones who have strong motivation: the traditional system does not work for their child, they have strong religious reasons to homeschool, and/or they have a strong support system (either through their spouse, other family members, or a support group). My advice to new homeschoolers is make sure you know why you are homeschooling, don’t look at short-term results, don’t compare one child to another, and find someone you can count on for support as you take this journey.

TOS: Good advice for all of us! With so many options available to us—different curriculum, different publishers—how do we make wise choices?

CINDY: First, don’t go to a curriculum fair or bookstore unprepared. Ask a seasoned homeschooler with the same philosophy of education and who teaches a child with the same learning style as your child to help you get started. Don’t ask schoolteachers—they know what works in a classroom, but homeschooling is different. (Some of my best clients when I was consulting were schoolteachers turned homeschool moms. They needed to learn a new way of teaching.)
Second, give yourself a couple of years to fine-tune your curriculum to what works for your family. We’re all different. Don’t try to do the same thing your friend is doing, and don’t be afraid to change when something doesn’t work. You’ll discover as you go along that your teaching will change. Your goals will change. Your children will have different abilities and interests. You’ll go through plateaus where they seem to be learning very little and then there will be a big burst where they seem to be learning faster than you can teach them. Homeschooling is a lot of trial and error. Use what works. Change what doesn’t. And reevaluate every year.
For help in getting started, check out my “Step-by-Step Guide to Choosing Curriculum” (www.oklahomahomeschool.com/CCstepbystep.html).

TOS: What advice do you have for the mom in the trenches with several children, all at different grade levels?

CINDY: Teach multi-level! It will make your life much simpler. You have to teach math, reading instructions, and handwriting one-on-one, but most other subjects can be taught in a “one-room schoolhouse” type of approach. Spend the morning hours with one-on-one subjects while older children work independently; then spend the afternoon doing the other subjects as a group.
Learn to use books as a resource, not as a “Bible” to be followed by the letter. Pick and choose what works for your child. Skip what’s not needed and add additional resources when additional practice is needed. Don’t be afraid to deviate from the normal curriculum choices if it will benefit your child. Not everyone needs to know Shakespeare any more than everyone needs to know art, calculus, or computer graphics. Not every child will have the same career. Find out what your child’s gifts and interests are and focus your teaching towards developing them.
Last, don’t teach every subject every day. Unlike a school where you have to change classes every 45 minutes, you can alternate subjects on separate days, spending as much time as you need on the subject to cover what you want to cover. This eliminates a lot of time wasted in “changing classes.”

TOS: I so much appreciate the fact that you don’t claim to have the one and only answer for how to homeschool. In your personal experience, did you follow a structured program when you began? What made you change?

CINDY: Yes, I tried the structured approach in the beginning. Within two months, however, I knew something had to change because all I was doing was re-creating the same problems at home that my child had had in school! After talking with Dorothy Moore (author of Home Grown Kids), I put my structured curriculum in a closet and used an “unschooling” approach for a few years. We read together, did projects together, went places, and learned from the world around us. Gradually, we added back curriculum as needed until, by the time they were in junior high school, they were teaching themselves from a variety of resources, both traditional and nontraditional.

TOS: Tell our readers a little about what The Checklist contains and how it is to be used.

CINDY: In 1994, after my own children had graduated from high school, I began to help other moms with their home education programs. Most of these teachermoms were struggling with traditional curriculum and found that after spending hours “filling in the blanks,” neither they nor their children had the desire or the energy to pursue other desires and interests. I began to encourage them to put aside their traditional curriculum, which was developed for a classroom setting, and select materials that met the specific needs of each of their children. I encouraged them to use more “real” books, add some multi-level unit studies, and make textbooks their servants instead of the other way around. Many of them were afraid that by doing this they wouldn’t cover everything that was required by the state, their children wouldn’t be able to get into college, or their children’s education would somehow be inadequate.
I realized that parents using this nontraditional approach would need a tool that would help them plan their children’s educational program and keep track of what has been covered. That’s why I began working on The Checklist. I arranged it into outline form based on Luke 2:52 (“And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, in favor with God and with man”) and placed each learning topic into one of four categories: Wisdom, Stature, In Favor with God, and In Favor with Man. (See sample pages for more information: www.oklahomahomeschool.com/checklist.html.)
My goals in creating The Checklist [were] to help parents identify their child’s reading, writing, and math skills (assessment); discover any “holes” in their child’s learning (assessment); plan what their child needs to cover each year (scheduling, lesson-planning, scope and sequence); keep track of what their child has covered each year (recordkeeping); and prepare unit studies, if desired, by theme, timeline era, geographic location, or by using biographies; all in the context of the Word of God.

TOS: The unit studies and other information on your site are fabulous! Can you tell us a little about what else we will find there?

CINDY: My website is [everything] I ever knew about homeschooling, plus what I am continuing to learn. I’ve included information on how to get started in home- schooling (including some “assessments” for potential homeschool parents!), how to choose curriculum based on learning styles, how to teach multi-level, tips on how to teach the basic subjects, information on teaching high school and preparing transcripts, homeschool forms that I’ve created, free unit studies, Oklahoma history teaching resources, and local information for Oklahoma homeschoolers.

TOS: This is an incredible resource that our readers should know about. The Checklist is for sale at the website, but all the other resources are free, free, free!
This is an in-depth education in homeschooling, all at your fingertips, at www.oklahomahomeschool.com. We are so grateful for Cindy Downes for her many years of work and service to the homeschooling community. Stay tuned to see what she comes up with next!

Cindy Downes is a veteran homeschool mom of two. She maintains the Oklahoma Homeschool website, teaches workshops, and writes curriculum including The Checklist and Oklahoma History Online. When she is not writing, she enjoys reading, cooking, biking, traveling with her husband, and volunteering at church and for a local hospice. Contact her at cindy@oklahomahomeschool.com.


Copyright 2006. The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, Summer 2006, pages 64-67.


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