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The night before, my 3 yr old son, Daniel was having trouble falling asleep.
He kept coming upstairs to tell me one more thing. After reading him 5 stories
and singing to him for hours, he finally fell asleep at 11PM. I figured he
would sleep in a little in the morning. Fat chance!
Somewhere around 8ish, my daughter woke me up saying that while my son and
she were playing cars, his stomach was hurting him. I figured he might be
hungry. I woke up and made a quick breakfast. In looking through my fridge,
I realized that I have to go shopping and since I share a car with my husband,
on this day, Tuesday is the only day I can go. In the meantime, I give them
some applesauce and some cereal that I received from WIC (women, infant,
and children program).
After breakfast, I tell them to play and put on Veggie-tales sing-along
songs. I run upstairs and lift light weights and do a few push-ups on my
knees. I used to be an aerobics instructor years ago and don't like the way
my body is looking lately! I jump in the shower. I took one last night but
need a second one because my hair is so kinky that if I don't put conditioner
on it, I will walk around all day with what is known as an "Afro."
While my daughter, Gabriella (6) is doing art on a computer program, I quickly
braid her hair (since lice is going around), get everyone dressed, and we
are off to a quick run to Trader Joe's. It is 9:15 and we have to be finished
shopping my 9:45 because we have to be at Community Bible Study at 10:30.
We run up and down the aisles grabbing everything we need: waffles, hash
browns, yogurt, soymilk, cheese, vegetables, fruit, bread, and frozen vegetables.
I quickly help the cashier bag the groceries as time is of the essence.
As we start for the car, I realize that they changed the time of "CBS" (Community
Bible Study) and we don't have to be there until 10:45. Quickly, my children
help me unload the groceries and organize the fridge. We live in an apartment
in Los Angeles and the fridge space is very small. The freezer keeps popping
open!
Finally, everything is in and I realize that I haven't eaten breakfast myself
itself for sample oatmeal that my daughter handing me while shopping. I grab
a few sugar coated almonds and an organic apple and am out the door again.
Tuesdays are our Community Bible Study day. My daughter goes to her homeschooling
class where she is studying Genesis, in depth. She's studying the same passages
that I am studying with the women in my core group. We have homework that
we go over together and discuss questions. My son has a children's program
too. He makes an art project, a small bible coloring book with the scripture "love
one another" written on a heart that he glues to the book. He has singing
time, flag time, scripture memory time, story time, snack time, and playground
time.
It is so nice to finally sit in my small group with other women and discuss
Jacob's struggles. He is a man that many look up to, yet, he has gone through
so much. Not only has his father-in-law cheated him and made him work so
hard, but later, his sons will trick him into thinking his beloved Joseph
is dead. In addition, the women, Rachel and Leah feel unloved by their father
who sold them off. I can really relate to these biblical characters.
Next, we move into a large room where a key speaker talks more in depth
about Genesis and before I know it, my short time fellowshipping with the
women has come to an end. I pick up my children and while driving out the
parking lot, a dear friend, Dee, hands me two large bags of clothes she thinks
might fit me. My 3 year old son turns to me and says, "Mommy, that is so
nice that she gave you those clothes." Times are tough in California and
homeschool/stay-at-home moms are having it the roughest.
You would think my day ends there but that is just the beginning. We come
home and eat lunch. For me, a yummy salad and some mushroom pizza. Then,
I clock my calories into fitday.com and realize that the olive oil has too
many calories and the pizza has too many carbs! Too late now. 'I'll do better
at dinner,' I tell myself. I write to my two friends by e-mail and see how
they are doing on their new diets. We are trying to hold each other accountable.
But one of my friends called me on my cell phone before CBS to tell me she
just found out she's pregnant so, so much for her diet!
After lunch, my daughter sorts the new clothes I've been given into two
piles. I gather up some lentil soup, edamames and fruit that I put together
from last night. I am going to bring it over to a very ill homeschool mom
in the hospital. Krista English, a homeschool mother of 2 boys, in Santa
Barbara has Leukemia and almost died last week. A friend of mine in Santa
Barbara has been sending me her husband's blog http://hopenotesfromkrista.blogspot.com and
I've been following it and praying for her. She is staying in Ronald Regan
UCLA hospital which is right across the street from my husband's "Jews for
Jesus" office. My husband only works in the office on Tuesdays and that's
why I can have his "Jews for Jesus" van on Tuesdays. The rest of the week,
he can be seen handing out tracts at the college campuses, Venice Beach,
and farmer's markets, meeting with Jewish men one-on-one for Bible Study
and speaking at churches on the Hebraic roots of the faith.
It is 2:30 PM now and still, I am rushing. I drop the children off with
their dad and the secretary at the Jews for Jesus office. They love going
to the office and visiting "Susan." They watch their dad work on the
computer and my son brings his cars. Susan likes to chase them around the
office too in the wide open space that we don't have in our apartment.
Now I am off to try to find a parking spot. The traffic in Westwood/UCLA
is very congested. I pull into the hospital to find out they want 11 dollars
for parking! Forget it! I am driving around for what seems like forever
when I finally find a small spot that I need to parallel park into. I am
having trouble and fortunately, a young man who seems like an angel to me
comes out of nowhere and helps me back it in.
Making my way up to the sixth floor, I am anxious to meet "Krista," the
young woman I have been praying for. When I enter the room, I almost think
I made a mistake. This can't possibly be the same young woman I saw pictures
of? She looks so different. First of all, she lost all of her hair. Second
of all, she is so fragile. She tells me how she has sores on her lips and
can't eat and she's malnutritioned. She can't even get 300 calories a day.
She is forcing herself to drink an "Ensure" drink. Her mother has tears in
her eyes as she tells me how they almost lost her last week. Krista tells
me how she doesn't remember last week. She tells me how they put her in a
wheelchair and tried to get her to stand for the first time today and how
tired she was as a result. Her spirits were so good. She said she has gotten
so much support from the homeschool community in Santa Barbara. They have
been driving down to Los Angeles (a two hour drive) and bringing her husband
food and praying for her. I ask her how her children are doing and she points
to a picture on the wall. She says they are having fun with their friends
and she seems happy about that. I told her she is so blessed to have friends
and she says, "Yes, the homeschool support has been amazing!" (I am a little
jealous because I have to drive 45 minutes south to Redondo Beach to my homeschool
support group).
Krista shows me a chart that says "1" on it. She is happy her white count
is "1" and says that it is progress. I ask her what number it has to be before
she starts feeling better. "100" she says with hope in her voice. She is
so optimistic. She tells me how she desperately needs plasma and blood donations.
Especially negative blood and especially "O-" If anyone can help her on the
west side of Los Angeles, you might save her life as blood donations are
low.
As I say goodbye, I find myself wanting to hug her and kiss her, but all
I can offer her is a prayer. Back in the elevator, I am filled with emotions
of how fragile life really is. As I walk to my car, I see a grown man in
the parking lot on his cell phone with tears rolling down his face. Has he
just lost a loved one? I pray for him.
Quickly, I run to the office to pick up my children and I see another missionary,
Holly, there. I tell her about my experience in the hospital. We talk about
how fragile life really is. Later, I will find out that she goes into the
hospital, the same night for chest pains.
Now, we are off to the San Fernando Valley. Gabriella attends a Christian
dancing school there and takes jazz and tap. There are many homeschoolers
that attend. With no traffic, it would take 30 minutes but I've left after
3 PM, which means lots of traffic but the children are used to it living
in Los Angeles. We arrive there at 4 PM which is 15 minutes late but I figured
it worth being late, to go visit Krista. While my daughter dances, I chat
with other homeschool moms and my son plays in a nursery with other siblings
while I watch him. He has so much fun that he doesn't even want to leave
to go home. My daughter practices her dances for her performance. One song
is by "Stephen Curtis Chapman", one of my favorite singers. I also use this
time to catch up with friend on my cell phone.
Now at last, it is getting dark. The moon and stars are out and we are driving
home. Normally, my son falls asleep on the way to dance class but tonight,
he falls asleep on the way home. It is 7 PM now and my husband works late
on Tuesdays because of a Jews for Jesus Bible Study at the office. I make
dinner and the children are so glad to just sit on the floor to play. I check
my e-mails and facebook. With all the energy left in me, I put on an aerobic
video. Watching my daughter dance motivated me! I put on a dance exercise
video for 45 minutes and force myself to do the moves. (While exercising,
I also manage to remember to get online and renew our library videos so we
don't get a fine tomorrow.) I need the movement. I've been sitting in Bible
studies and cars all day! A few months ago, I did "Raw Food Boot Camp" where
you eat the majority of food raw and exercise for an hour a day and lost
20 pounds. But I slacked for a few weeks and put 10 back on! My short-term
goal is to lose a few in time for our Purim party.
Finally, I can sit on the couch. My children have been playing cars nicely
but now want to play on the computer, "Boz the Bear." I realize its 9:30
PM already and the children aren't in bed! I begin to read my son a book
when my husband comes through the door early. The bible study was cut short
because the bible study's teacher's wife, Holly, had to go to the hospital
after having heavy chest pains. I begin to pray for her.
Now, back to reading.
Daniel likes his two favorite stories read to him, The Enormous Crocodile and Teeny,
Tiny Mouse . Gabriella wants to read two chapters from, Charlie
and the Chocolate Factory . After the stories, we brush teeth, pajamas,
pray and shut the lights. My son gets out of bed one time and says I forgot
to tell him "sweet dreams." I tell him "sweet dreams" and tuck him back
in. I hope it's not going to be like the night before. I am more firm this
time, "No getting out of bed now - its bedtime." My daughter is already
snoring.
Finally, I plop into my bed. Normally, I will read my Bible but it is so
nice to have my head touch the pillow and finally put my feet up. My husband
and I discuss the daily struggles of the day. It is nice that we are now
sleeping with each other again. I recently trained my 3 yr old son to sleep
in his own bed. Before long, I am drifting off to dreamland. I think my husband
is snoring while I am still talking.
What about academics you ask me? I think my children learned a lot about
life today. Money, weighing food, food shopping, cooking, hospitality, computer,
art, keyboard practice while I was on the computer, coloring, bible studying,
socializing with homeschool friends and daddy's co-workers, dancing, reading
and singing. BUT just to be sure, tomorrow is Wednesday. On Monday, Wednesday,
Thursday and every other Friday (because of a homeschool co-op), we do My
Father's World First Grade curriculum ( reading, writing,
math, bible stories, and memory scripture ) for Gabriella and Rod
and Staff pre-school for Daniel. We also use Rosetta Stone Hebrew curriculum
once a week.
Rhonda Gordon was born and raised in a Jewish home in New York City. She
received her Masters Degree in Psychology in Hawaii. Since hearing
the good news of Jesus, she has had a strong desire to share with others. Rhonda
and her husband, Cyril are missionaries with Jews for Jesus in Los
Angeles. They have two children, Gabriella, 6 and Daniel 3. She can
be reached at: jewess4jesus@ca.rr.com
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