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Children grow up. Sometimes it’s hard to see the growth
in our own children because we see them everyday. The
changes are too gradual. But it can be startling when
we see it in the lives of children we see only occasionally. So
it has been for me to watch Alex and Brett Harris, the twin
sons of my dear friends, Gregg and Sono Harris—seeing the
twins (as everyone calls them) over the years in homeschool
conferences, first as toddlers, then as boys, and then as young
adults in homeschool speech and debate. But on their last visit
in March, when Alex and Brett came to our community to present
their Rebelution Tour Conference to a packed facility of
500 Christian teens and their parents, the change was amazing.
Could these young men really be the same children who played
with mine many years ago? Yes, children really do grow up,
and here I am today interviewing them for TOS.
Alex and Brett are the sons of Gregg and Sono Harris. Gregg
is an author, conference speaker, and homeschooling advocate
who is widely credited with helping to launch the Christian
homeschooling movement over 25 years ago. They are also the
younger brothers of Joshua Harris, author of the bestselling
book I Kissed Dating Goodbye, who is now serving as senior
pastor of Covenant Life Church in Gaithersburg, Maryland.
The third- and fourth-born of seven children, 17-year-old
Alex and Brett are best known as the co-authors of the popular
blog “The Rebelution” (www.therebelution.com), which has
received over 255,000 hits since its launch in August 2005 and
was recently voted the best homeschool
teen blog on the Internet. The twins’
talent in speaking and writing has been
demonstrated by six national championships
in NCFCA speech and debate. Their
article “Addicted to Adultescence” was
recently featured in Focus on the Family’s
Boundless webzine. Now Alex and Brett
are taking the message of the Rebelution
to a wider audience with the Rebelution
Tour (www.rebelutiontour.com), a traveling
one-day conference for Christian
teens and their parents.
This summer and fall, Alex and Brett
will be working in Alabama as grassroots
directors for a slate of candidates for the
Alabama Supreme Court.
Recently they took some time from
their busy schedule to chat with The Old
Schoolhouse Magazine.
TOS: Welcome, guys! We’re going to
start off with the question I know my
readers are wondering: what in the world
is a “rebelution”?
ALEX: Good question. The official definition
of the “rebelution” is “a widespread
teenage rebellion against the low expectations
of an ungodly culture.” When
you look around today, in terms of godly
character and practical competence, our
culture does not expect much of us young
people. We are not only expected to do
very little that is wise or good, but we’re
expected to do the opposite. Our mediasaturated
youth culture is constantly reinforcing
lower and lower standards and
expectations.
TOS: I definitely agree with that assessment
of society today and the need for our
teens to say, “enough is enough.” But I’m
still curious, why the word “rebelution”?
BRETT: As you may have noticed, the
word “rebelution” is a combination of the
words “rebellion” and “revolution.” So
it carries a sense of an uprising against
social norms. But in this case, it’s not a
rebellion against God-established authority
but against the low expectations of
our society. It’s a refusal to be defined by
our ungodly, rebellious culture. Actually,
we like to think of it as rebelling against
rebellion.
TOS: Rebelling against rebellion. I like
that!
ALEX: And it’s exciting, because the
Rebelution has really become a type of
counter-cultural youth movement among
Christian young people from around
the country, and even around the world,
who are not only rejecting the lies and
the corruption of media-saturated youth
culture, but they’re returning to biblical
and historical levels of character and
competence.
TOS: Now when you say “biblical and
historical levels of character and competence,”
what do you mean by that?
BRETT: The immaturity and irresponsibility
that has come to be expected of
young people in our society today would
not have been tolerated even a century
ago. It’s definitely not the standard that
God has for young people. In 1 Timothy
4:12, the Apostle Paul tells Timothy, “Let
no one despise you for your youth, but
set the believers an example in speech,
in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.”
In other words, as young people we are
called to be exemplary in all areas of life.
Our generation is falling incredibly short
of that calling.
TOS: What, in your opinion, caused the
standards to drop so dramatically?
ALEX: The change has really taken place
over the last 100 years. To give you a brief
historical overview, prior to the beginning
of the twentieth century there were
only two categories of age: childhood and
adulthood. But the reforms of the early
1900s, outlawing child labor and mandating
education through high school, created
an unnatural and new category age
that we know today as “adolescence.”
Even though young people still had all
the desires and capabilities of adults,
the opportunities and responsibilities of
adulthood were delayed for four years or
longer.
TOS: And they haven’t just been delayed,
they’ve been replaced.
BRETT: Exactly. The opportunities and
responsibilities have been replaced with
relative idleness, and really, indulgence.
Instead of serving as the launching pad
of life, the teen years are seen as a vacation
from responsibility. It’s crippling our
generation. We call it the “myth of adolescence.”
And the Rebelution is all about
busting that myth.
TOS: Now who is your primary audience
with this? I’m a mom and I love it, and I
think most homeschool kids would agree
as well. Is the Rebelution more targeted to
public school students?
ALEX: Yes and no. Yes, because the public
school system is where the myth of
adolescence is most deeply ingrained. But
at the same time, no, I wouldn’t say our
message is exclusively, or even primarily,
targeted to public school students, or that
homeschool students don’t need to hear it.
Actually, I think it’s just the opposite.
TOS: Really? And why is that?
ALEX: God hates it when we’re lukewarm.
And I think a lot of young people
in our generation, and homeschool students
particularly, fall into that category.
TOS: Now when you say that they’re
lukewarm, you’re referring to?
BRETT: Complacency. The world tries
to get us in one of two ways. First they
try to flat-out brainwash us through the
classroom and through media. That’s the
method of choice in the public school system,
and it’s working very well. But the
second way that our culture tries to get
us to buy into the myth of adolescence is
more subtle, and really, much more crafty.
I think it’s the method of choice among
the homeschool community, and again,
unfortunately, it’s working. Instead of
grabbing us and pulling us down, it happily
paints us an exception. But an exception
only proves the rule. Instead of
[dispelling] the myth of adolescence, it
reinforces it when we become satisfied
with being “above average.” We become
complacent. And either way, the world
has won.
TOS: I agree. And really, being “above
average” doesn’t mean much when the average
is so low!
ALEX: No, it doesn’t. It reminds me of a
study that was done about expectations in
public schools, and it concluded by saying
that the current ceiling for young people
is really much closer to where the floor
ought to be! In other words, the highest
we’re allowing ourselves to go—in competence
and godly character—is really
much closer to the lowest we should be
allowing ourselves to go. Unfortunately,
many homeschool students tend to compare
themselves to that low standard.
They say, “Look at me! I’m articulate,
I’m respectful, I’m mature for my age!”
And if they don’t, other people will say it
for them! The problem is that we live in a
society where even mediocrity is considered
exceptional. We don’t even have to
exert ourselves, and we’re still showered
with praise. Again, we’ve lost sight of the
biblical standard.
TOS: So how do you see young people returning
to that biblical standard? How do
teens bust the myth of adolescence once
and for all?
BRETT: The battle cry of the Rebelution
is just three words, but it’s an explosive
concept: Do Hard Things. That’s it.
And “do hard things” is a mentality. It’s
a mentality that flies right in the face of
our culture’s low expectations. The world
says, “You’re young; have fun!” It tells
us to “obey your thirst” and “just do it.”
Or it tells us, “You’re great! You don’t
need to exert yourself.” But those kinds of
mindsets sabotage biblical character and
competence. “Do hard things” is just the
opposite. It’s how we build character and
competence. It won’t drop to meet the low
expectations, it won’t just do what comes
easily, and it won’t become complacent.
It applies no matter who you are or what
level you’re on, because there’s always
something harder to do, something that
will take you outside your comfort zone
and cause you to grow. As it says in Lamentations
3:27, “It is good for a man that
he bear the yoke in his youth.”
TOS: First, wow! That sounds great!
Makes me want to be a rebelutionary, too.
Second, could you explain how the “do
hard things” mentality fits into the bigger
picture of the Rebelution?
ALEX: The Rebelution is made up of
three fundamental parts. We’ve talked
about two of them: character and competence.
The third one is collaboration.
It’s not enough for us to be individual
exceptions. It’s not enough for us to try
to ignore the culture. We have to create a
counterculture. The way we do that is by
networking, exhorting, and encouraging
one another in the fight. By God’s grace,
that’s what the Rebelution has become.
And when you have a community of
young people mutually committed to doing
hard things in their teen years for the
glory of God, that’s an incredibly powerful
thing.
TOS: It really is. You know, it’s so exciting
to watch what God is doing through
the two of you in your generation. I wish
we could just go on talking, but I’m afraid
we need to wrap it up. May God bless you
both in all you do.
I’d encourage all of our readers to visit
and bookmark the twins’ incredible blog,
The Rebelution (www.therebelution.com),
and to contact them about hosting and
scheduling Rebelution Tour conferences
(www.rebelutiontour.com) for 2007.
Jennifer Steward
Contributing Writer
Georgetown, CA
Jennifer Steward contributes to TOS’s Homeschool
Units column and is a humorous and encouraging
speaker, drawing from her 20 years’ experience
homeschooling her eight children. She is the author of
books on unit studies, organization, and many more.
www.UnitStudies.com
Copyright 2006. The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, Summer 2006, pages 88-91.
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